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gamepimp12 posted...

So thats because of two things.

Her own trauma causes her to self sabotage among other things.

I didnt feel ready for that step financially.

so we would talk about marriage and kids but it would be at this nebulous point in the future.

You know I view that financial excuse as self sabotage as well. It really was an excuse.

I understand waiting for a certain financial stability for marriage, but not to make your relationship more official, especially because you somehow had enough money to keep buying expensive shoes.