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Its doubly unfortunate because we are incredibly understanding and accepting of cis people who listen and learn in those type of conversations, where they are genuinely well meaning even through making mistakes.

Its really frustrating and ultimately a waste of our time when they come into such discussions and instead continue to defend their point, turn it into an argument, rather than taking it as a teachable moment to build relationships and mend bridges. They arent there to learn, they just want to argue instead.