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super_felicia posted...

Lots if they are willing to change their setup but my uncle is an anti social world of warcraft player who hates living with people he won't. My other cousin could idk but he has a family of 3 and a girlfriend..oh her brother lives in Wales he would definitely help they are super close he doesn't think she's bad though cos she is so good at acting like she's fine with little cracks showing for when he visits on occasions

I edited it to girlfriend just to be correct even though it doesn't make a difference to anyone reading

I am sorry you are in this position. I've been through this a couple times and the advice that darkmaian23 gave is worth listening to. Right now seems difficult but it will get a lot harder when she begins to deteriorate further. The escape plan is a must. I don't care what excuses your family members have, you need to talk to them and split the work. You cannot shoulder this on your own. If they are unwilling, you need to look for options such as senior care. Get in contact with your local government and see what assistances they can offer you. You do not want to be stuck being the sole caregiver in their final year or months. It is the most mentally and physically draining thing.