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KogaSteelfang posted...

I know, and it shows they're more desirable than I am. I've seen unattractive people be happily married, same with people with hideous attitudes.

I'll be totally honest here. I've asked out 1 person, and she said yes. It never actually happened due to unfortunate timing with Covid hitting USA at the same time.

But there are other ways to be rejected rather than me having to ask them.

This is really depressing me, and it's late. I'm going to bed. If you have any more questions I'll answer tomorrow.

Not trying to make you depressed mate. But if you compare yourself to somebody like me who has had multiple relationships, Ive asked plenty of girls out who have said no. You need to learn to dust yourself off and try again.

Zonbei posted...

Its pretty weird to cut someone you care about out of your life because your romantic relationship didnt work out, unless they were toxic or some other issue is at play.

I see my most recent ex once a month as we navigate moving on from a 4 year relationship. We planned to get married. Didnt work out. Losing her from my life entirely would hurt.

Im not saying cutting them out is what everybody should do. Its just what has always happened with me. Most of mine have ended with a fair amount of resentment. The easiest way to deal with that is to remove myself from the situation. My last ex said she wanted to stay friends, but after the way she handled the break up, she wasnt somebody I wanted to be friends with. A number of our mutual friends felt the same way.