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Glob posted...

Why not?

For the first part, I've never had any success even when I was trying. So trying again would just be more of the same.

As for the time situation, I'm 40 and have never dated. My biggest in life was to be married and have kids. So let's say I do try again, and succeed. I'd only just be starting to learn how to date, and I doubt I'd find my perfect match on my first date. So I'd probably have to go through several relationships before finding someone I'd settle down with. That would likely take years. Then it's take years before I'd be comfortable proposing. Then I'd want to be certain we could manage before having kids. So add a few more years...

I'd likely be pushing 50 or more. I can't imagine being a father at that age. I'd likely be dead if old age before any of the kids grow up. Even if I rush things and marry and have kids quicker than I'd rather, it's still be a similar situation. And that's the best case scenario... I certainly wouldn't be that lucky.

I don't feel like there's any point deluding myself.