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Xenogears15 posted...

Dudes, congrats! Honestly happy for you over here. From someone in an 8 year marriage, I gotta ask what your secrets are.

Also asking the same of @ScazarMeltex . I didn't quite you because GameFAQs won't let me quote over multiple pages.

Thanks. We treat each other with respect, don't try and control each other's hobbies or how we spend our time so long as it's not detrimental to the relationship or our finanaces. We generally don't fight, but if we do we work on remaining calm or at least explaining things in logical terms rather than yelling or screaming at each other. Getting emotional in those types of scenarios leads people to say hyperbolic shit they may not mean, which leads to resentments that can surface over time.

Also, we don't have kids. Which means a huge amount of stress that we simply don't have to deal with.

We simply love and respect each other and genuinely enjoy spending time together.