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Topic	Probably gonna get divorced, AMA
CE_gonna_CE 02/26/24 11:14:31 PM #24:	JuanCarlos1 posted... Can you both afford living on their own with this economy? Cause that deters me from divorce. Yes, that shouldnt be an issue. We have enough to where its all split 50/50 we each have a decent chunk. Its more the alimony issue I want to plan for. Income wise, it should really be fine regardless of how it shakes out, but I know exactly what her spending and standard of living are now. I can support it, but dont want more going to her if she doesnt need it. Not that I think shell overspend or anything, but Id hate to be paying for something like a fancy vacation or something if she ends up getting with another guy and does something like that with the money. Child support is no issue, all I do now is for the kid really, so Ill give whatever I can there. MaxEffingBemis posted... Whos alt are you You gotta win a money giveaway and see my PayPal email to find out. marthsheretoo posted... I mean someone's gonna be getting a money giveaway. Yup, MaxEffingBemis [LFAQs-redacted-quote] Definitely have seen a few of those at the theatre with her. I was never a fan. Harpie posted... Howve you been taking it? Heh. Well, I guess trying to think through everything as much as possible is how Im trying to handle it. The complete lack of affection and knowing the person you care about essentially hates you is always a rough pill to swallow. It sucks, and I have not taken that well. Since there is so much I cant control or change, I just want to focus on the planning I can do and get wherever control I can if the situation. bnui_ransder posted... Well damn, sorry to hear. I have no advice on the matter but we're here if you need to vent . Thank you, for sure Kamen_Rider_Blade posted... What are your fights about? Is it financial issues? There have been a lot of those, yes. Not so much these days, but I know theres expensive shit she wants to do around the house and probably feels impatient when I tell her we have to wait. But its always been kind of a keeping up the Joneses thing where anytime we break one financial barrier, there are always more new and expensive ones to break. Sex is also a big one, and other household stuff, how we raise the kid, how we are around family. Where to go for dinner. You name it. Theres been a lot of it. --- "Creed made better Pearl Jam music than Pearl Jam did" - shockthemonkey <cite>CE_gonna_CE posted [p:979064154] in Probably g... [t:80706787]...</cite> <quote>JuanCarlos1 posted... </cite><quote>Can you both afford living on their own with this economy? Cause that deters me from divorce.</quote>Yes, that shouldnt be an issue. We have enough to where its all split 50/50 we each have a decent chunk. Its more the alimony issue I want to plan for. Income wise, it should really be fine regardless of how it shakes out, but I know exactly what her spending and standard of living are now. I can support it, but dont want more going to her if she doesnt need it. Not that I think shell overspend or anything, but Id hate to be paying for something like a fancy vacation or something if she ends up getting with another guy and does something like that with the money.Child support is no issue, all I do now is for the kid really, so Ill give whatever I can there.MaxEffingBemis posted... </cite><quote>Whos alt are you</quote>You gotta win a money giveaway and see my PayPal email to find out.marthsheretoo posted... </cite><quote>I mean someone's gonna be getting a money giveaway.</quote>Yup, MaxEffingBemis<cite>[LFAQs-redacted-quote]</cite> Definitely have seen a few of those at the theatre with her. I was never a fan.Harpie posted... </cite><quote>Howve you been taking it?</quote>Heh. Well, I guess trying to think through everything as much as possible is how Im trying to handle it. The complete lack of affection and knowing the person you care about essentially hates you is always a rough pill to swallow. It sucks, and I have not taken that well. Since there is so much I cant control or change, I just want to focus on the planning I can do and get wherever control I can if the situation.bnui_ransder posted... </cite><quote>Well damn, sorry to hear. I have no advice on the matter but we're here if you need to vent .</quote>Thank you, for sureKamen_Rider_Blade posted... </cite><quote>What are your fights about?Is it financial issues?</quote>There have been a lot of those, yes. Not so much these days, but I know theres expensive shit she wants to do around the house and probably feels impatient when I tell her we have to wait. But its always been kind of a keeping up the Joneses thing where anytime we break one financial barrier, there are always more new and expensive ones to break. Sex is also a big one, and other household stuff, how we raise the kid, how we are around family. Where to go for dinner. You name it. Theres been a lot of it. --- "Creed made better Pearl Jam music than Pearl Jam did" - shockthemonkey</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
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