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Topic	Probably gonna get divorced, AMA
CE_gonna_CE 02/26/24 10:58:57 PM #19:	Notti posted... How was the marriage. Looking back did you see it coming. Signs? Ups and downs, all throughout. I have definitely been an asshole in the past. But very much more so when we were younger. But shes no angel either. Hell, maybe that alone is why weve stuck it out all this time. Sex has always been an issue, and continues to be. But its not even sex for me anymore, its just any sign of affection Ill take, really, or any sign that she loves and at least marginally cares about me as a person. Our last big fight that ended up in divorce discussion was earlier in the year, but we got through it. But that time was when I got it in my head that this was inevitable, really. With her not being an angel and all there have been 2 distinct times I probably should have walked away in the past. In hindsight, should I have? Doesnt matter, but the kid is great and I wouldnt trade him for the world. But in the end, I only have myself to blame for being blind to the red flags that have been there all along, so Ive essentially made my own bed in that regard and need to lie in it. --- "Creed made better Pearl Jam music than Pearl Jam did" - shockthemonkey <cite>CE_gonna_CE posted [p:979063964] in Probably g... [t:80706787]...</cite> <quote>Notti posted... </cite><quote>How was the marriage. Looking back did you see it coming. Signs?</quote>Ups and downs, all throughout. I have definitely been an asshole in the past. But very much more so when we were younger. But shes no angel either. Hell, maybe that alone is why weve stuck it out all this time. Sex has always been an issue, and continues to be. But its not even sex for me anymore, its just any sign of affection Ill take, really, or any sign that she loves and at least marginally cares about me as a person. Our last big fight that ended up in divorce discussion was earlier in the year, but we got through it. But that time was when I got it in my head that this was inevitable, really. With her not being an angel and all there have been 2 distinct times I probably should have walked away in the past. In hindsight, should I have? Doesnt matter, but the kid is great and I wouldnt trade him for the world. But in the end, I only have myself to blame for being blind to the red flags that have been there all along, so Ive essentially made my own bed in that regard and need to lie in it. --- "Creed made better Pearl Jam music than Pearl Jam did" - shockthemonkey</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
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