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She's projecting her own insecurities by conveying her concerns in the wrong way. It's fair for her to want to act like a parent and weather expectations. Perhaps she's had parents and family member who have burned her before, and doesn't want the same thing to happen to you.

However, she's not turning these concerns into constructive criticism. The questions you listed that she said come off as passive aggressive nagging. You should tell her that. Instead of asking those questions, she can perhaps help to research what qualifications are PREFERRED (not just needed) for a particular job, and to support helping you get those qualifications.