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Glob posted...

In what way is that projecting? I dont struggle to talk to women.

But theres plenty of men out there who believe that they cant possibly be friends with women. That tells me that they only see women as sex objects. The majority of my friends are women.

This. I knew this is what you meant by many guys not treating them as people. When I meet women, I actually treat them as potential friends first and don't worry about sex and such. And a few years ago, I was about 50/50 with having male and female friends.

However, several of these women ended up being interested in me. Some I never really dated, and some I dated short term, but I now lost touch with them, especially once I started dating my fiance. It should be noted that she was my friend for 3 years first, and I truly never expected anything. It's kinda crazy actually.

Did you never have this problem, Glob? I know men and women can be friends, as I still have a few, but things got messy for a bit.