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MrResetti posted...

I guess I'll have to elaborate further and say that I'm not saying what should happen one way or the other, but replying with "girl you better leave his ass" isn't really the appropriate answer either.

But hey, what do I know being a father with a significant other that has presented problems. Cheating? No. But other issues exist and you have to decide what value is there and worth fighting for. And if she weighs shit out and decides it isn't worth fighting for anymore that's fine. But God damn you can't just run straight to "here's my.attorney, I expect alimony. See you in court.". It's someone you love. It affects people you love. It's hard on everyone. The right choice is never the quick trigger pull.

It sucks having a loved one disappoint you. It takes a clear head to make the right decision. Y'all are all outsiders pushing some cut and dry answer in a situation you are fortunate enough to not truly understand.

But based on her posting history, she has been unhappy with him for a long time. There have been discussions, there has been second chances, etc.

And I am unfortunate enough to actually truly understand. I dragged out my marriage too long and am much happier now. As is my ex wife.