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TopicCaught my husband on the phone with another woman last night
GuerrillaSoldier
06/14/23 7:19:53 PM
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mybbqrules posted...
Yeah, you're on the cheater's side. Fuck all the way off, and then fuck even more off with the blame shifting and gaslighting.
don't misunderstand. she herself said that she has selfish goals of putting up with the husband's behavior just so she can be with her daughter, aka, her selfish goals. she's very clear on what she wants. that's my point.

additionally, the other point is that it doesn't seem clear what he wants. we're getting half of the story. we don't know what he wants. does he even want to be married to her? is there even anything to fix? the husband seems okay with the daughter but not with having a 100% committed relationship.

people will like what they like, and they shouldn't be afraid of it. if the dude likes to visit stripclubs, why would he get married to someone that doesn't want him to visit stripclubs? because someone wasn't honest, either to themselves or to each other. these are things you should find out.

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