LogFAQs > #974156418

not trying to be the evil one here, but it sounds like you don't know what he wants. it sounds like you know what you want, and what you won't allow, and what your selfish goals are in all of this, but you don't seem to know anything about him and what he wants.

have you tried finding out what he wants, exactly? does he want a family with other women? does he want to sleep with other women? or does it just make his ego better because he realizes that other women still think he's desirable?

i get that your life and parents affect how you view things and what you want, and i'm sure you know this because you married the guy, but he's a whole different person with a whole different life. certain things may mean differently to him. i think figuring out what he wants is key here, and then figuring out if you can be ok with that is probably the next step.