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TheGoldenEel posted...

yeah this

lots of kids grow up great with separated parents. Better than a household with parents that fight all the time/dont trust each other

The thing is we dont fight much. Weve had periods of downs that we worked through like typical marriages. A few months back he was being snappy and short with me all the time to the point that I almost packed my bags but then he worked on things. The last few weeks hes been so nice to me, taking me out on dates and doing little things for me. He stopped being grumpy all the time. I thought that was him working on our marriage but timing seems to match when he started communicating with his coworker. So maybe he was just feeling fulfilled by that and became nicer to me but had nothing to do with him caring about our marriage. Makes me feel so shitty inside.