LogFAQs > #974152779

Wow Cleo, I am so sorry. I feel like him rushing to delete messages is validation enough. Just not enough for the courts if it comes to that. It doesn't matter if those texts are sexual, venting about you, or whatever. If it's worth him hiding it from you then it's something he thinks he shouldn't be doing.

Imo light flirtation is enough of a deal breaker. The only flirtation that should be happening on his part is with you...his wife. The fact that he immedietly jumped to suggesting therapy again comes off as him realizing he was caught doing something he knows is wrong(whatever that may entail) and that spending some time talking about his insecurities will just hand wave the indecent actions away.