LogFAQs > #972030030

Just go and meet her anyway. Not like youre getting married. Maybe it will be nice.

I went on the date and really shouldn't have. Started normal until I asked how her experience with the app was. She said she's met a bunch of duds and then began mentioning her ex and kept coming back to her ex like every 30 seconds. She didn't even mention that he died, just kept mentioning him like he was a past lover. Everytime I tried to deflect to other subjects, she'd just, stop and stare into space, lost and detached each time. Once I realized there was no getting through to this girl, I politely told her that I needed to go. That flipped this switch where she came back to reality and didn't want me to leave. She asked if i wanted to come over. I said no and was on my way and that was it.

I don't know why I didn't cancel the date. It was just her not even close to getting over this and using me as a sponge to talk about it. She never mentioned that he died or anything and I didn't bother to ask more about it because that would be dumb. It still made me feel bad to just sit there and watch someone pretty much uninterested in getting to know you and wanting you to just sit there and listen to them talk about someone else.