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Topic	I'm going ham on meeting girls
adjl 12/06/22 9:08:34 AM #11:	Mensis posted... Yeah but you're admittedly codependent. And that'll dry any girl up And more than just not being attractive, it's exhausting. You may well find somebody who likes you well enough to stick around, but being in a relationship with somebody who leans on you 24/7 to avoid slipping into crippling depression wears on a person and creates a really unhealthy relationship dynamic in which the dependee feels like they can't leave without harming the dependent one. Even if you stop feeling depressed when you're with someone, you should be taking advantage of that temporary motivation to get yourself into some sort of therapy to help you work through those challenges and not depend on relationships to be sane. --- This is my signature. It exists to keep people from skipping the last line of my posts. <cite>adjl posted [p:969953902] in I'm going ... [t:80263487]...</cite> <quote>Mensis posted... </cite><quote>Yeah but you're admittedly codependent. And that'll dry any girl up</quote>And more than just not being attractive, it's exhausting. You may well find somebody who likes you well enough to stick around, but being in a relationship with somebody who leans on you 24/7 to avoid slipping into crippling depression wears on a person and creates a really unhealthy relationship dynamic in which the dependee feels like they can't leave without harming the dependent one. Even if you stop feeling depressed when you're with someone, you should be taking advantage of that temporary motivation to get yourself into some sort of therapy to help you work through those challenges and not depend on relationships to be sane. --- This is my signature. It exists to keep people from skipping the last line of my posts.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
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