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CommonStar posted...

Of course not. It matters because you're better off looking for a senior care/nursing home or a long term care facility for him that the VA can provide him. You should contact your local VA and get in touch with a social worker that can help you with this. Also if moving him is absolutely not an option, see if they can provide a caregiver without paying out of pocket.

It's an awful situation and I'm sorry you're dealing with it alone atm. If you can get in contact with your siblings, try to get them to help lift some of the burden even if you have to yell at them.

They want nothing to do with him. One said, and I quote wants nothing from him in life or death

I am the only child who has never gone no contact. Theyre also only half siblings and I dont have their contact information.

I also am absolutely not going to berate someone about this. Im having to deal with confrontation enough as it is for my ptsd and anxiety.

Hell... out of the four I dont even know what states the girls live in, and the one brother straight up blocked me on Facebook. I hadnt even talked to him in over 15 years

The last is the one that disowned his father.