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Suolevram posted...

Indeed, I was. Seen that exact response before. Didn't think it would get taken down. Lesson learned.

The funny thing is, I covered this in one my post. We always jump to assuming the person has the worst intentions. It's because we've been being trained to do that. I can't tell you how many times I've had to self correct this in my head. Life gets a lot more fun when you start giving people the benefit of the doubt, I promise you. It's not like we're changing the world by pointing to everything and saying that's racist. In fact, it's done the actual opposite and made all the real racists get on defense and start fighting back harder. Because now everything makes their lifestyle feel threatened. Granted, I have no fuckin idea how to navigate this properly either. Im just getting tired of people trying to convince me all softcore ignorance comes from a place of deep hatred. It doesn't. It's just people being dumb and having fun half the time.

I feel in a constant state of confusion when I try too hard and it's fuckin exhausting. I just wanna have fun again. It's not hard to just dieectly ask someone if they actually hate people. It's really easy to tell if they do or not by how they navigate that question