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Probably not very legalistic. She's actually been married twice and got gouged both times due to lack of pre-nup (and ironically I'm the one insisting on a pre-nup before marriage. That's more because I wanted her to be at ease as she has more to lose than I do and has gotten gouged before). She's also generally very trusting of people.

I mean it's possible that those bad marriages have made her paranoid too, but I'm not sure that makes it better I dont want marriage baggage on me.

Other factors to consider
1. I got a loan from her one other time. It was just a black friday loan for around $800 to get a great deal on a lenovo laptop (we'd been together a bit over a year then). I said I would pay her back within 2 weeks. No document needed for that but she gave me some passive aggressive crap about non payment a bit after 2 weeks, and I was confused because I'd paid it back. Turns out cashapp didn't send her a notification and the money had been there for a week. Oops. Never really apologized for that either.

2. Her daughter bought some land and she footed part of the bill and made her sign a document for that, so precedent is there. To me that's a totally different beast though because it must be paid over like 10-20 years and is a much larger sum and her daughter doesn't have contractually guaranteed income like me or even stable employment.