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DCinGA posted...

I'm in a 4 year relationship with someone Borderline. When things are good, they are phenomally good. This is the reason I am willing to go through the bad with her.

There's a book we reference from time to time called 'I Hate You, Don't Leave Me'. It helps, but it is still tough sometimes. Her past has given her this disorder and very poor coping skills.

We have a motto: You keep me Safe and I'll keep you Wild.

She can be tough to deal with during our 'bad' times, but worth it for us. I've been treated far worse by "normal" women, than anything my bpd girlfriend has done.

So TC...yeah you might have dodged a bullet, but you very well could've let that special one slip away.

Good job, man. And I seriously wonder if this could have been my relationship if I had whatever skill set you have for keeping things going smoothly the majority of the time. Because yeah, as you said, the good times are phenomenally good.