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BigMeatyClaws 05/08/22 5:00:46 AM #1: |
Borderline personality disorder. Im feeding into the stigma but this makes me worried. --- http://media.tumblr.com/tumblr_lu9sfueDC81qfb808.png ... Copied to Clipboard!
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viewmaster_pi 05/08/22 5:07:27 AM #3: |
well you have BMC, so it's fine --- Resist, resist It's from yourself you have to hide ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Malcrasternus 05/08/22 5:08:40 AM #4: |
https://gamefaqs.gamespot.com/a/user_image/3/2/6/AAL4msAADNZu.jpg --- 4/15/1951 - 3/18/2014 ... Copied to Clipboard!
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FelineCyborg 05/08/22 5:09:54 AM #5: |
Why would googling somebody give your their mental health history? Was she committed or something? --- "well, yeah, and a lot of minorities go to see minstrel shows, too." - PyroSpoon ... Copied to Clipboard!
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darkmaian23 05/08/22 5:34:10 AM #6: |
I'm going to be that guy: do yourself a favor and run away now. The "stigma" surrounding BPD comes from clinicians who won't take BPD patients because of their professional insurance disallowing it due to liability or because it is too exhausting and horrible, and from the people who had a parent with BPD, and from people who have dated them. It didn't spring up from nowhere. Go read the stories on Reddit about what people have gone through or are going through. Are all people with BPD like that? No, of course not. Do some people make it work? You bet! But here is the thing my dude: you don't have any obligation to start a relationship with anyone. Look out for number one here and dodge that bullet. ... Copied to Clipboard!
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QueenCarly 05/08/22 5:37:48 AM #7: |
At least give them a chance, people are not their diagnosis. But for real, go in as you would with anyone. Give them an honest chance. --- https://media.giphy.com/media/26AHNHoZ6XnXX2fhC/giphy.gif ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Kim_Seong-a 05/08/22 5:45:08 AM #8: |
I'm on the "give them a chance" train. It's just a date, not an eternal blood oath. If things don't go well you can always just cut things off. --- My Digimon (DM20, DMX v.2) https://imgur.com/uX26FVe ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Kaiganeer 05/08/22 5:48:23 AM #9: |
cancel the date but be honest about the reason ... Copied to Clipboard!
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BignutzisBack 05/08/22 5:51:19 AM #10: |
BigMeatyClaws posted... Borderline personality disorder. Please run for the hills, I have two friends whose lives have essentially been destroyed by women with borderline personality disorder --- http://i.imgur.com/plA0Vg9.gif https://media.giphy.com/media/dgK22exekwOLm/giphy.gif ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Gobstoppers12 05/08/22 6:04:34 AM #12: |
My ex with BPD cheated on me several times, screamed at me like 40% of the time no matter how hard I tried to keep her happy, and broke up with me at least once a month. It was the most disastrous relationship I've ever had, and it's not even close. The weird thing is, if not for for abusive bullshit, she was very cool. Very sweet. Made me happy 60% of the time, but that 40% of the time she was in disaster mode, my life was essentially unlivable. --- I write Naruto Fanfiction. But I am definitely not a furry. ... Copied to Clipboard!
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BignutzisBack 05/08/22 6:06:27 AM #13: |
Gobstoppers12 posted... The weird thing is, if not for for abusive bullshit, she was very cool. Very sweet. This is really disturbing, as it mirrors exactly the experience I've had with someone who had borderline personality disorder, as well as my friends who dated girls with borderline personality disorder --- http://i.imgur.com/plA0Vg9.gif https://media.giphy.com/media/dgK22exekwOLm/giphy.gif ... Copied to Clipboard!
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NeonOctopus 05/08/22 6:09:45 AM #14: |
Abandon ship on that one, mate --- http://i.imgur.com/nlaY1qH.jpg http://i.imgur.com/zHJ1OCo.gif http://i.imgur.com/btBPP4E.jpg http://i.imgur.com/1B3bMHw.gif https://i.imgur.com/2aof3ao.jpg ... Copied to Clipboard!
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FelineCyborg 05/08/22 6:18:03 AM #15: |
Why is nobody questioning the premise of this topic? He googled his date and found this out? something susp. --- "well, yeah, and a lot of minorities go to see minstrel shows, too." - PyroSpoon ... Copied to Clipboard!
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AdrianBeterson 05/08/22 6:26:12 AM #16: |
Yeah how tf did you find out she has BPD? --- https://imgur.com/EvtcK3P ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Unsuprised_Pika 05/08/22 6:28:15 AM #17: |
[LFAQs-redacted-quote] Looking it up quickly and sum it up broadly it sounds basically like being a yandere but as an actual mental disorder. Mood swings, obsessive unstable relationships, paranoia, fear of abandonment, impulsiveness, periods of detachment from reality... ... Copied to Clipboard!
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spikethedevil 05/08/22 7:11:45 AM #18: |
So much ignorance ITT. This topic is very much showing why people are scared to find help. --- A garbage pod!? It's a smegging garbage pod! ... Copied to Clipboard!
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rexcrk 05/08/22 7:17:54 AM #19: |
Gobstoppers12 posted... My ex with BPD cheated on me several times, screamed at me like 40% of the time no matter how hard I tried to keep her happy, and broke up with me at least once a month. I dont know how on earth you would willingly put yourself through that shit. --- Tell my tale to those who ask. Tell it truly, the ill deeds, along with the good, and let me be judged accordingly. The rest... is silence. ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Back_Stabbath 05/08/22 7:19:02 AM #20: |
shes gonna bite your dick off --- https://i.imgur.com/Iv5fRLt.gif ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Nintendo_Porn 05/08/22 7:24:16 AM #21: |
People are so much more than a piece of paper - you taking a risk no matter who you date, and remember everyone has baggage. You'll miss out on wonderful things/people in life worrying about shit like that. --- N.P.C.C. (Nintendo Porn Company Conspiracy) Truly Outrageous! The Truth Is Out There! http://i.imgur.com/dQqBtsL.gif http://i.imgur.com/pE4QiFK.jpg ... Copied to Clipboard!
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bulletproofvita 05/08/22 7:26:44 AM #23: |
rexcrk posted... I dont know how on earth you would willingly put yourself through that shit.Sometimes you get stuck --- I don't do signatures. ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Shablagoo 05/08/22 7:32:31 AM #24: |
shit topic --- "if i was a woman i would mail kyle rittenhouse my panties." ~ledbowman "Out of those two? Racist for me... easily." ~Vicious_Dios ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Perfectinsanity 05/08/22 7:34:05 AM #25: |
Dont date her --- Those who live are those who fight. ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Jiek_Fafn 05/08/22 7:45:08 AM #26: |
Depends on the severity of the symptoms tbh. There are plenty of folks with mild symptoms that in the end just end up being very clingy. If that doesn't bother you, then go for it. CE likes to judge mental issues by the extreme end though. --- I don't believe in belts. There should be no ranking system for toughness. ... Copied to Clipboard!
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--Zero- 05/08/22 8:57:12 AM #27: |
Dont do it. --- "Everyone, follow me to the shelter. We've got enough food for 14 days. After that, we have a difficult conversation." ... Copied to Clipboard!
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RenescoStCewl 05/08/22 8:59:50 AM #28: |
You don't owe anyone a date. If you're not comfortable with it then cancel. --- He/him ... Copied to Clipboard!
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--Zero- 05/08/22 9:01:23 AM #29: |
Gobstoppers12 posted... My ex with BPD cheated on me several times, screamed at me like 40% of the time no matter how hard I tried to keep her happy, and broke up with me at least once a month. Had an ex that was very similar. Seemed like every other month shed get pissed at me and id come home from work to her having her things packed ready to leave me. She left me for her previous ex and got pregnant with him so I dodged a bullet when she finally let me free. Women with BPD in my experience is like getting on a roller coaster without the seatbelt tightened and it was easy to get stuck. --- "Everyone, follow me to the shelter. We've got enough food for 14 days. After that, we have a difficult conversation." ... Copied to Clipboard!
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SideburnStalker17 05/08/22 9:16:09 AM #30: |
spikethedevil posted... So much ignorance ITT. Or selfishly not putting themselves in a shit situation! The world needs good people to pick up the sword and fight those battles. Not me! If I'm forced to do so, definitely - something changes in my wife, my kids, family, etc. I'm all in. But knowing info like that going in? I'll pass and sleep just fine with everyone calling me a bad person for thinking like that! ... Copied to Clipboard!
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averagejoel 05/08/22 9:31:13 AM #31: |
everyone has issues. people are a lot more than their diagnosis though. you don't really know what she's like until you meet her. meet up with her and see what happens. --- http://error1355.com/ce/averagejoel.html ... Copied to Clipboard!
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DanHaren2022 05/08/22 9:32:01 AM #32: |
I would abort, personally. ... Copied to Clipboard!
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AloneIBreak 05/08/22 9:36:05 AM #33: |
Kaiganeer posted... cancel the date but be honest about the reasonThis. Message her and tell her how you were Googling her and came upon her mental illness, then you made a topic on CE and let other people decide how you should handle it. Im sure shell understand. --- The burden of proof is on those who argue that authority and domination are necessary. Libertarian socialist. ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Mearcstapa 05/08/22 9:43:07 AM #34: |
Why is it called "borderline" personality disorder anyway? borderline of what? --- after years of waiting nothing came ... Copied to Clipboard!
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rexcrk 05/08/22 9:43:40 AM #35: |
bulletproofvita posted... Sometimes you get stuck Idk about that. Id be peacing out of there if I was dealing with someone like that. --- Tell my tale to those who ask. Tell it truly, the ill deeds, along with the good, and let me be judged accordingly. The rest... is silence. ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Vicious_Dios 05/08/22 9:45:33 AM #36: |
Nah, this ain't it. --- S / K / Y / N / E ... Copied to Clipboard!
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DezDroppedFreak 05/08/22 9:47:50 AM #37: |
Still want to know how tf googling someone turned up their mental health history --- I feel like Ratatouille when I'm whipping that cheddar RIP Brockhampton ... Copied to Clipboard!
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spikethedevil 05/08/22 9:47:59 AM #38: |
Mental health still has such a long way to go with BS shown ITT. --- A garbage pod!? It's a smegging garbage pod! ... Copied to Clipboard!
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LordRazziel 05/08/22 9:49:23 AM #40: |
DezDroppedFreak posted... Still want to know how tf googling someone turned up their mental health history --- https://i.imgtc.com/xg91pMF.gif https://i.imgtc.com/YvvIsuz.gif. On really romantic evenings of self, I go salsa dancing with my confusion. ... Copied to Clipboard!
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spikethedevil 05/08/22 10:14:29 AM #41: |
DezDroppedFreak posted... Still want to know how tf googling someone turned up their mental health history Good point. --- A garbage pod!? It's a smegging garbage pod! ... Copied to Clipboard!
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BigMeatyClaws 05/08/22 10:21:03 AM #43: |
Sorry everyone. I fell asleep. Do people really find it strange to google who youre supposed to go out with? Thats odd. And I found out about the bpd because googling her name lead to her Instagram where she has a few posts about her diagnosed BPD. It didnt require any detective work --- http://media.tumblr.com/tumblr_lu9sfueDC81qfb808.png ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Garlands_Soul 05/08/22 10:21:56 AM #44: |
I've been dating someone with BPD for 6 months now and honestly haven't really had many issues. It's a fun time and I love them --- "I, Garland, will knock you all down!" ... Copied to Clipboard!
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jumi 05/08/22 10:25:08 AM #45: |
spikethedevil posted... So much ignorance ITT. So you'd be okay dating, say, an abuser or sociopath or nymphomaniac because it's not their fault or they can change? --- XBL Gamertag: Rob Thorsman Facebook: http://www.facebook.com/robertvsilvers ... Copied to Clipboard!
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yemmy 05/08/22 10:25:13 AM #46: |
I've had relationships with 3 women in which had some serious personality disorders, only one of them was diagnosed with BPD (or at least shared the diagnosis of it), but all 3 did a lot of the same things, and all 3 had some sort of childhood abuse or severe neglect. People outside of these relationships make fun of the "I can fix her" thing, but when you are young and immature and the sex is so good, sometimes you actually think that, but no it is not happening. --- p226 ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Phenomenal_one 05/08/22 10:41:02 AM #47: |
DezDroppedFreak posted... Still want to know how tf googling someone turned up their mental health history Access main program. Access main security. Access main program grid. --- I am what I am and that is all that I am and I am it ... Copied to Clipboard!
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AmericaTheBrave 05/08/22 10:42:46 AM #48: |
Abandon ship --- https://imgur.com/h74Kc6W ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Jerry_Hellyeah 05/08/22 10:42:55 AM #49: |
Imagine if she found out you post on GameFAQs. --- This is a cool sig ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Unsugarized_Foo 05/08/22 10:43:43 AM #50: |
Weird to Google someone and see they have BPD But BPD is on a slider from my experience. You can have someone who's crazy, shits on beds, and mean as a snake and have someone who's in treatment and can manage. You'll never see how far the rabbit hole goes unless you observe their closest relationships or become one I'd say go for it if you're a stable person yourself. Run away if you're a codependent --- "All I have is my balls and my word, and I don't break them for anyone!"-Tony Montana ... Copied to Clipboard!
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spikethedevil 05/08/22 10:46:07 AM #51: |
jumi posted... So you'd be okay dating, say, an abuser or sociopath or nymphomaniac because it's not their fault or they can change? Yes these things are definitely the same and not a false equivalence. --- A garbage pod!? It's a smegging garbage pod! ... Copied to Clipboard!
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