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Topic	So I googled the girl I'm supposed to go out with. She has BPD
CRON 05/08/22 3:43:39 PM #132:	Hoodroar posted... Does literally anyone have a good experience dating someone with BPD to counter the negative anecdotes? Like we have people saying, "this was terrible" and other people saying, "well you don't know if it's always terrible" and it's just a meaningless point. People refuse to date others over much less severe red flags. This is what frustrates me. I've personally never seen any instance of people having a good or even remotely positive story involving being in a relationship with someone suffering from BPD. The discourse, at least these days, always seems to be between people who have been victims of abuse, and people dismissing it as "ahem, you're generalizing. Not everyone with BPD is an abuser". I don't want people to be abused. I don't want people to fall victim to manipulation tactics and suffer. --- [obligatory signature] <cite>CRON posted [p:964884427] in So I googl... [t:80013421]...</cite> <quote>Hoodroar posted... </cite> <quote>Does literally anyone have a good experience dating someone with BPD to counter the negative anecdotes? Like we have people saying, "this was terrible" and other people saying, "well you don't know if it's always terrible" and it's just a meaningless point. People refuse to date others over much less severe red flags.</quote>This is what frustrates me. I've personally never seen any instance of people having a good or even remotely positive story involving being in a relationship with someone suffering from BPD. The discourse, at least these days, always seems to be between people who have been victims of abuse, and people dismissing it as "ahem, you're generalizing. Not everyone with BPD is an abuser". I don't want people to be abused. I don't want people to fall victim to manipulation tactics and suffer. --- [obligatory signature]</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
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