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TopicSo I googled the girl I'm supposed to go out with. She has BPD
CRON
05/08/22 2:50:26 PM
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Heartomaton posted...
It's the whole "Oh she has BPD... better just break things off before you have an iota more info" sentiment.

That's what did it.
That sentiment does come off as presumptuous. I apologize.

That said, if you receive information that a potential date/partner has a personality disorder in which a significant amount of its sufferers display abusive and manipulative behavior, all while being one of the most difficult-to-treat disorders... I don't know what to tell you.

It doesn't help that a lot of BPD relationships are started and often anchored by the manipulative practice of "love bombing". One of my old therapists told me all about it, and it made complete sense when I first heard it. Coming from my own experiences, I don't want people to fall for the love bombing tactic and get sucked into an abusive relationship.

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