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BettyWhite posted...

While at the very heart of my disorder is me feeling that I don't deserve to be loved...

I hope everyone can see why this would be rather damaging.

It is unfortunate, but do recognize that posters are prioritizing their own well being first and foremost, hence their direct and blunt statements. People's decisions will be motivated by self preservation unless they have a grander vision or care about some cause or someone more.

Since we have numerous posts on what the worst case scenario is, why not talk about how you manage it to be in working relationship? This way, if OP decides to pursue the girl, he'll know the signs of what to look for to know the girl in question is making an effort to manage her disorder and he can be assured there's a future with the girl?