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TopicSo I googled the girl I'm supposed to go out with. She has BPD
KhlavicLanguage
05/08/22 1:07:51 PM
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dated a borderline girl from 2013-2016

genuinely the worst experience of my life, the simplest way to explain it is that they will find any reason to get upset, and once they work themselves up they will find any way to twist your response into a reason to get more upset

the self-harming and substance abuse were all present as well, and were made out to be my fault multiple times despite both well predating and outlasting my presence in her life

borderline isn't a chemical imbalance, it's more like genetic/trauma-induced faulty-wiring. its hallmark symptoms are extremely resistant to treatment, sure they're often on antidepressants and whatnot but those only treat some tertiary symptoms. there's no pill to fix having an inherently fucked sense of how to relate and interact with people.

just don't fucking do it, best case scenario is she ditches you in 2 weeks for the next new-and-shiny, worst-case is she gaslights you into years of putting up with complete insanity a la Ms. Heard
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