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SeabassDebeste posted...

don't have a ton to add, just that i am very familiar with the feeling of being on the outskirts of friendships, someone who's convenient rather than desired.

that said i've also felt like i've been the only one to reach out in relationships and have often felt like i was only valued as a peripheral piece because of that. if you value your friendships then you should try for reciprocity - or at least try to let the people who reach out to you know that they're valued

not exactly deep advice or anything, but this post did hit home for me in some ways

Yeah, my friendships all ended basically the moment I stopped the one way in roads. Unless someone needs something.

Hell some people don't even have the decency of responding anymore and leaving me hanging a lot and when I am like hey I don't know whats going on because you said maybe and haven't told me for sure, they get shitty and are like if someone doesn't respond it obviously means no. And, I am just like... coulda just said no. The weird thing is, I know almost no one in my life who isn't that way. Maybe barring one person or so.