Drunk Cobra posted... My girlfriend of five months turned out to be an alcoholic which I knew by month 2 but didn't know she was sneaking it every chance she had while also arguing with me about everything and be insanely defensive on it. Discovered a handle in her backpack checked her phone and found out she was freezing out her friends who knew her problem to try to hang out with people who didn't or wanted to take advantage of her getting that blasted.
Very awesome. Broke up with her and she was crushed. We talked a bunch I gave seeing her casually a try then she turned things around to me having anger issues and being furious about everything especially her, which uhhhh I had some doubts on so I just told her I didn't think either of us were having fun with this. Tried to convince herself into pregnancy, does not appear to have worked. We went our separate ways and sometimes she will text me and I will either not respond or do so with one word.
It seems like I get half the matches on apps I did before this summer. And those I match with are uhhhh either not promising and I let it trickle off or just doesn't go anywhere.
Been on two dates since breakup, one of them I may as well have dated a homeless person as I paid then she slept in my bed we didn't hook up or anything, then I kicked her out and haven't heard from her since, which, thank christ.
Second was alright, we had a lot of the same interests but she was too shy and like boring. We did some light smooching then I guess I kinda ghosted her. For some reason I couldn't muster the effort to just be like hey this isn't gonna happen.
Most recently I had this cool back and forth with a paisano cutie, we agreed to go out after the holidays then she never responded to my post New Years text or the shitpost Seinfeld meme I sent after. Since then, it has been a desert.
Jeez. Is it sad that part of misses this insanity? There is just something about knowing anything could happen in any given night.