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LeetCheet posted...

Well long story short she didn't like how my ex treated me and she especially took issue with the fact that my ex made me wait six years to do the thing with her while this new guy managed to do it in a few weeks if that.

If that was the first time she'd done "the thing" with anybody, she might have been more open to it after you. That or the other guy was better at talking her into... idk, whatever hardcore kink you're probably referring to.

LeetCheet posted...

She even told that younger woman(which she's best friends with) about it all and she was also angered by it.

Jeez now that really cute woman knows that I was c-blocked for half a decade.

What did you expect? If two women are best friends, you can't tell one something without it going to the other.

And if it was just sex, you should have broken up with her that first year. At a certain point, a lot of that is on you.

adjl posted...

Reminder: Having privilege doesn't mean you never have problems. It just means you don't have the problems that somebody else has in whatever the current context is.

I don't think he has privilege. And most "privilege" is largely imagined or anecdotal, or carries tradeoffs.


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