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TopicWhy do people say men should show interest, but then complain about horndogs?
Graycap
06/09/21 7:48:20 PM
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Tenlaar posted...


"Friendzone is something not nice guys say because they think women owe them sex."
"Sometimes the guy isn't getting any so it gets tiresome though." <- this is you

Look at yourself. Seriously.

The bolded isn't what I replied to. I replied to a guy who claimed that talking about the friendzone was disrespectful to women. I said it wasn't, based on the fact that the friendzone guy isn't always complaining about women, and instead sonetimes just complaining about his personal misfortunes and inabilities.

If I was replying to the quote you'd posted instead, I'd just respond that that's a dumb simplification of the usage of the word "friendzone". It's not always about men demanding sex, nor is it even always about men wanting sex at all (it could be about lack of romance). All the complaint requires is the guy being sad that he's never able to become more than friends with women. There is no requirement that he thinks he's being wronged by someone. You're tacking stuff on.

So nice try. I never once said women owe men anything or defended anyone claiming that. Don't add bullshit.

Glob posted...


He didn't. You very much implied it by trying to justify people being creepy with their sexual frustration.

Your assumption was wrong. There was no justification of any creepy behavior towards others. The question is about what behavior is preferred from people, prefaced with the fact that a lot of common behaviors receive complaints; nowhere is it stated whether the complaints are justified or unjustified. It's a question, not a defense.

Don't throw in character assassinating assumptions of people based on what you think was implied based on biased reading. Maybe seek clarification on posts you think are claiming more than what they explicitly said.
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