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I got shot down recently. It went fine: she said something that made me think she liked me, and I asked her if she wanted hang out. She demurred. A week later, I brought up again, framing by asking her how she felt about it, and she looked me dead in the eye and said she didnt want to, she didnt know what we would do, and that she was seeing some one(I had, in a few occasions, made it known I thought she was attractive). I indicated my interest was not purely sexual true and she offered a willingness to do a group thing.
I shot that down, both because I have no intentions of trying such an undertaking and because I wanted her to know that I knew precisely what she meant. She responded by admitting she wasnt much of a planner.
Ill still say hi and bye and make the occasional polite conversation, but Im not going to let her confide in me, since were not friends.
Given that Im transitioning soon and theres little reason to believe shes into women, probably wouldnt have worked in n the long run. Not romantically, anyway.