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I've been waiting on this customer for almost the entire 3 years I worked at that store. It wasn't until earlier this year I noticed she seemed super happy to see me, when I don't recall giving off any vibes whatsoever in any way other than just business or slight small talk like the weather.

What got me thinking is one time a couple of months ago I was talking to somebody I work with about a customer we liked, and she was in my line, and she goes "I'm your favorite customer, right?" looking at me. I said yeah, and next time she came in I joked about it and she liked it. Then after this like every time she'd be in she seemed excited or at least very friendly. We'd make small talk beyond just one/two line sentences. She is from Ohio, for example. One day she checked out and as she left said "good to see you again" after like maybe a week she wasn't in. Then the feeling sad I was leaving to go to another store, even saying the new one was probably too far to drive to(40 minutes - it is).

I'm just saying this because I feel i had reasonable cause to think she may be interested in me. I gave her my phone number saying we could do something some day, and I got no reply. there is a 99% chance here nothing will happen. The things above could all have been just friendly, and that is most likely what it is.

But this is all okay. I would prefer at least some communication going "hey i am not interested" if that is the case, but this isn't a big deal, and she's free to respond or not respond however she wants. Some people go psycho after being rejected. I'd just say it's fine, be nice, and move on. But not everybody does do that so ghosting just kinda makes sense.

Oh well. Overall I am glad I put myself out there, as I rarely do this kind of thing. That makes me feel good. I'm not really too upset about this situation going nowhere. I guess for some people this kind of thing is a weekly occurrence(asking girls out) but for me it is not.