LogFAQs > #952790049

It will almost never come up. The whole thing is very silly to get upset about. I'll call you however you appear.

First of all, if I was in contact with 20+ people every day who all used some different pronoun, I'd never keep them straight and I would just give up on trying. If that makes me an asshole, I can live with that. I can't remember 20 people's names half the time much less whatever pronoun they expect others to use. There is no discernable way to tell a pronoun other than memorizing someone's preference, which could then change a year later. Too much work and not worth the effort.