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Naruto_fan_42 posted...

I mean Ill respect other peoples pronouns(I cant do neopronouns but across the internet Ive seen like 2-3 people total that ask for them) but when it comes to me I really dont give a crap. I get a bit happy from stuff that isnt she/her because Im afab and everyone in my actual life uses them and its a nice change when internet people assume Im a guy or something but idk. I dont know how to approach this whole gender identity thing. If I could just delete any need for a gender from my whole existence I would tbh.

It's totally valid to view your gender identity however you want. you can just tell people 'any pronouns are fine' or whatever if they ask you.

And a lot of nonbinary people do think of gender as something they don't want or don't have any use for. Like, it is a socially constructed set of roles and restrictions - in an objective sense it doesn't really matter. I care about people perceiving me as a woman because of stuff inside my head, not because i belong to some perfectly logical ideal category called 'woman'


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