LogFAQs > #952503587

Been through this, learned a lot about human nature from the experience (the good and the bad). Some of those closest to the person who died are likely hurting to. Not to minimize what you're going through, it just might help to talk to someone who also knew the deceased personally. Don't be afraid to seek closure. It's what a friend would want you to have.

As for the cheating girlfriend, I advise not doing anything drastic that will paint her as a victim. Not for her sake, but yours. If she's just an awful person in general, people like that will exploit tragic events like this for crude pity points. She could play herself off as a grieving lover despite not caring about the diseased at all and being a prime factor in his death. Don't provide the tools for that. Don't be fodder for her next deception.

Feel free to publicly decimate her image and character over this whenever you please though. It's basically a standard response even in modern times, because in these cases it's warranted. Many people who have lost friends and family to disgusting actions of someone else naturally treat that person like shit for the rest of their lives. It's human to do. Don't let any of her braindead defenders here or in real life tell you different. You have the right to hate her for this. You have the right to remind people of what she did to contribute to it. Just be smart about it and don't obsess. A friend would want you to keep toxicity in your life to a minimum and live on for them.

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The funny thing about telling others to take the high road is how often it's hypocritical advice.
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