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Scarecrow17 04/05/21 6:01:36 PM #1: |
I cant fucking believe this.
Today, he lost his job at Amazon warehouse and found out his girlfriend of a few years cheated on him. He tried to call her and figure out what happened but she threatened to call the police. So, he got a gun and went the the graveyard where he shot himself. I cant fucking believe this. How fucking hard is it to stay faithful. If you cant, break up with the person first. Why the hell would you put them through that and then have the audacity to threaten to call the police when they want answers rightfully so? If there is a Hell, I hope she burns. Fuck her and that stupid job. goddammit he was only 22. Ive known him for almost a decade now. Fuck I just talked to him the other day about potentially hanging out and playing Smash Bros. soon fuck man I cant even begin to describe how much Im hurting over this he was one of my closest friends I wish he reached out to somebody before he did it. Theres more to living than just this, you know? No person or job is worth killing yourself over. --- His foundation lie in the holy mountain. Selah. ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Jeff AKA Snoopy 04/05/21 6:04:05 PM #4: |
I want to stress this. Don't point your heartbreak and distress as his GF.
I assume he was battling depression and lost his battle with it. And of course, sorry for your loss man. Take the time you need to recover and talk to someone if you need to. --- ... Copied to Clipboard!
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g0ldie 04/05/21 6:04:09 PM #5: |
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AwesomeFawful 04/05/21 6:04:25 PM #6: |
Goddamn.... That's so fucked... :(
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StarDestroyer 04/05/21 6:04:27 PM #7: |
I'm sorry for your loss TC. I hope you can take all the time you need to heal.
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UnfairRepresent 04/05/21 6:06:36 PM #8: |
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Fony 04/05/21 6:07:25 PM #9: |
one of my friends died entirely because of a girl. hoodrat set him up to be robbed and killed.
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gamerfaq7835 04/05/21 6:08:18 PM #10: |
Sorry for your loss TC.
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Lost_All_Senses 04/05/21 6:11:11 PM #11: |
You just made me hit up my friend going through relationship problems and depression. Sorry you have to go through this.
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BakonBitz 04/05/21 6:11:49 PM #12: |
Fuck, I'm sorry. :/
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Scarecrow17 04/05/21 6:12:41 PM #14: |
Jeff AKA Snoopy posted...
I want to stress this. Don't point your heartbreak and distress as his GF. No, he was fine right up until today. When he lost his job, he started having darker thoughts. Then this happened with his girlfriend and it sent him over. Its why he did it. The last person he talked to confirmed this. She should have just talked it out with him. She meant SO much to him. There was no reason to do this to him especially after he lost his job and was having a hard time. Just talk things out with people. Like just dont fucking cheat on people please. You have no idea how they will react to it. Just end the relationship. Its not right to put someone through that after years of being with them especially. Now hes gone. This should have never happened, man. I wont say anything to her or about her. Its not my place. I just hope she never pulls this on another person again. --- His foundation lie in the holy mountain. Selah. ... Copied to Clipboard!
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NoxObscuras 04/05/21 6:12:46 PM #15: |
Jeff AKA Snoopy posted...
I want to stress this. Don't point your heartbreak and distress as his GF.Yeah, this. If his immediate reaction was to go kill himself, he was likely dealing with depression for a while before this. And I'm case you start going in that direction: Don't blame yourself for "not noticing" it either. That said, I'm sorry for your loss TC. That's rough because of how suddenly it happened. --- PSN - NoxObscuras Z490 | i9-10900K | EVGA 3080 FTW3 Ultra | 32GB DDR4 3600 | 4TB SSD ... Copied to Clipboard!
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jon1012 04/05/21 6:12:57 PM #16: |
Sorry he killed himself but this is not the girls fault.
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EmbraceOfDeath 04/05/21 6:14:13 PM #17: |
jon1012 posted...
Sorry he killed himself but this is not the girls fault.Doesn't make her any less scum. --- PSN/GT: BigDaffej ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Lost_All_Senses 04/05/21 6:16:43 PM #19: |
Can you guys wait until he's in a less distressed state before doing "um, actually" 's? Let him figure out his feelings before putting him in a defensive state. You're asking a guy who just found out his friend died to rationalize everything perfectly. It's not like he's saying he's gonna go harm her. He has more details on his own life and is in a vunerable state. Maybe bring it up later, if anything. Let him vent gow ne needs to right now. Maybe there's a whole lot more to ot that you guys don't know.
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BakonBitz 04/05/21 6:17:07 PM #20: |
jon1012 posted...
Sorry he killed himself but this is not the girls fault.Nothing excuses cheating, tbh. --- Game collection: http://www.backloggery.com/bakonbitz Gaming channel: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCwVQm69J7bGScbv3_50C0dA ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Wii_Shaker 04/05/21 6:17:12 PM #21: |
The girl sounds like a real c***.
I understand how dark things can get. It's really a shame he let it get the best of him. I'm sorry for your loss man. --- "He busted in, blessed be the Lord Who believe any mess they read up on a message board" -MF DOOM 1970-2020 (G.O.A.T.) ... Copied to Clipboard!
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gamerfaq7835 04/05/21 6:17:48 PM #22: |
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Sorry he killed himself but this is not the girls fault. It partly is. ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Delirious_Beard 04/05/21 6:18:34 PM #24: |
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Stfu he's not exactly wrong but good god there's a time and place --- https://imgur.com/hLHUnOI You act like I don't know my own way home ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Bad_Mojo 04/05/21 6:18:46 PM #25: |
Fucking horrible. I'm so sorry for the hurt your going through right now.
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UnfairRepresent 04/05/21 6:22:18 PM #26: |
Lost_All_Senses posted...
Can you guys wait until he's in a less distressed state before doing "um, actually" 's? Let him figure out his feelings before putting him in a defensive state. You're asking a guy who just found out his friend died to rationalize everything perfectly. It's not like he's saying he's gonna go harm her. He has more details on his own life and is in a vunerable state. Maybe bring it up later, if anything. Let him vent gow ne needs to right now. Maybe there's a whole lot more to ot that you guys don't know.Yeah that's how I feel People trying to debate TC aren't really being aware of his feelings right now. Give him some time dudes, save the arguing for another topic. --- ^ Hey now that's completely unfair! https://imgur.com/yPw05Ob ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Allanon23 04/05/21 6:23:39 PM #27: |
Fuck. Very sorry to hear that. Depression is the absolute worst.
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CarrieChan 04/05/21 6:25:29 PM #28: |
Tag
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VigorouslySwish 04/05/21 6:27:48 PM #29: |
I hope the letter he left cuts right through her heart and soul
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Talk2DaHand 04/05/21 6:32:02 PM #30: |
That's harsh. Be well TC, as much as you can. My condolences
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KogaSteelfang 04/05/21 6:34:10 PM #31: |
Sorry for your loss.
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metralo 04/05/21 6:35:04 PM #32: |
if you kill yourself because of a failed relationship you have many other issues.
sorry for the loss, but to pin this on the girl is fucking stupid and harmful rhetoric --- https://pbs.twimg.com/profile_images/1298321979/image.jpg bustin makes me feel good ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Tsuyoi3 04/05/21 6:36:15 PM #33: |
I'm very sorry.
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Scarecrow17 04/05/21 6:47:35 PM #34: |
Thanks for the condolences from some of you. Ill probably not post much for a bit since a few individuals want to jump on me for this. Really dont need to be debated on this at the moment despite if Im right or wrong. I already said that I will reframe from saying anything about her in public since it is not my intention to kick her while shes probably feeling down. This is just me venting about the situation. I wont point fingers at the girl. People just need to know not to cheat. It deeply saddens me that my friend took his life because this situation with her and the job overwhelmed him. He deserves better than this. I hope she knows not to cheat on her partners from now on. Thats all I wanted to say.
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OpenlyGator 04/05/21 6:49:26 PM #35: |
Been through this, learned a lot about human nature from the experience (the good and the bad). Some of those closest to the person who died are likely hurting to. Not to minimize what you're going through, it just might help to talk to someone who also knew the deceased personally. Don't be afraid to seek closure. It's what a friend would want you to have.
As for the cheating girlfriend, I advise not doing anything drastic that will paint her as a victim. Not for her sake, but yours. If she's just an awful person in general, people like that will exploit tragic events like this for crude pity points. She could play herself off as a grieving lover despite not caring about the diseased at all and being a prime factor in his death. Don't provide the tools for that. Don't be fodder for her next deception. Feel free to publicly decimate her image and character over this whenever you please though. It's basically a standard response even in modern times, because in these cases it's warranted. Many people who have lost friends and family to disgusting actions of someone else naturally treat that person like shit for the rest of their lives. It's human to do. Don't let any of her braindead defenders here or in real life tell you different. You have the right to hate her for this. You have the right to remind people of what she did to contribute to it. Just be smart about it and don't obsess. A friend would want you to keep toxicity in your life to a minimum and live on for them. --- The funny thing about telling others to take the high road is how often it's hypocritical advice. http://tryimg.com/8/2017/06/28/IdSqD.png ... Copied to Clipboard!
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cardoor123 04/05/21 6:56:12 PM #36: |
Imagine having this much emotion towards someone else that you're willing to kill yourself because of them. Couldn't be me. _
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Payzmaykr 04/05/21 6:56:54 PM #37: |
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Sorry he killed himself but this is not the girls fault.Except it kinda is. ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Funkydog 04/05/21 6:59:04 PM #38: |
Lost_All_Senses posted...
Can you guys wait until he's in a less distressed state before doing "um, actually" 's?For real. A time and place, guys. Condolences though, TC. Do you have anyone you can actually talk to about it? --- ... Copied to Clipboard!
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DarkRoast 04/05/21 7:02:14 PM #39: |
Payzmaykr posted...
Except it kinda is. You should never blame someone for someone else's suicide unless: 1) They have a long, pervasive and documented history of psychologically tormenting the individual or 2) They literally goaded the person into doing it The only "crime" (if you can call it that) for which she's guilty is cheating on him. That's extremely common and, while a douche thing to do, cheating on someone doesn't suddenly make you complicit with suicide. It's not like she should've thought "I better not do this, because what if he finds out on the same day he loses his job and has a breakdown?" Otherwise, you get situations that I see relatively often - where a mentally unstable person will threaten suicide whenever their boyfriend/girlfriend/spouse tries to leave the relationship, guilting them into staying into it. --- Razer Blade 15 - Core i7-9750H, 32 GB RAM (2666), RTX 2080 MQ ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Dark_SilverX 04/05/21 7:05:45 PM #40: |
she need prison
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TimeForAction 04/05/21 7:07:01 PM #41: |
He didnt die because of the girl not even partially
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Unite 04/05/21 7:09:06 PM #42: |
Ouch my condolences , has his ex gf found out?
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coolcono 04/05/21 7:12:27 PM #43: |
Scarecrow17 posted...
I cant fucking believe this.At about that age, I have had friends who have had their girlfriends cheat on them. They thought they would marry those girls, but they ended up getting cheated on. But it gets better as you get older. I think I have a lot more options now than I did then, but ironically, I am just too tired to pursue anything. --- psn- trucano ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Ruvan22 04/05/21 10:51:01 PM #45: |
I'm really sorry for your loss :(
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DocileOrangeCup 04/05/21 10:53:19 PM #46: |
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metralo 04/06/21 1:53:27 AM #47: |
Funkydog posted...
For real. A time and place, guys. There's not a time and place. I wouldn't mourn my Aunt dying from a gang shooting from a black male saying "ugh. black men. if it weren't for them." you rhetorically have to be fair if you're going to enourage an entire thread to hate a group. --- https://pbs.twimg.com/profile_images/1298321979/image.jpg bustin makes me feel good ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Number090684 04/06/21 1:59:06 AM #49: |
Goddamn bro. That sucks. Women doing unfaithful shit can really fuck with a guy's head if they really are commited to and love her and she really isn't. thus finding out can make them mentally unstable and could have them resort to really crazy shit. While him not being strong enough mentally to handle his grief and resorting to suicide isn't completely her fault hopefully she takes some sort of personal responsibility upon herself and never does this to another partner who really loves her.
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ZeroX91 04/06/21 1:59:37 AM #50: |
metralo posted...
There's not a time and place. I wouldn't mourn my Aunt dying from a gang shooting from a black male saying "ugh. black men. if it weren't for them."2 --- If the universe is so big why wont it fight me? ... Copied to Clipboard!
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KaZooo 04/06/21 2:00:07 AM #51: |
Sorry you lost your friend TC. That's just really shitty. No closure or anything. And the sense he was taken away.
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