I have a friend from college that I met up recently. We have the same degree and make around the same amount of money, he is a good guy. I don't remember why we got to that topic, but he was showing me some conversations he had with women on tinder/whatsapp. It was fucking brutal, women were replying all the time, he never got ghosted, and they went out of their way to meet up with him. One particular chat really cut deep: "Hey, I have nothing to do today, do you want to hook up?" "I actually have a date today, this guy is taking me out to this cool place. You could put that kind effort too, you know ? LOL You just want to get in my pants all the time" "I bet you will have a better time with me, lol. Why don't you come over?" "Omg, you! Now I have to cancel the date, happy? (lmao emoji). I'll be there soon, xoxo"
What is worse is that she was cute and black, exactly my type (That usually ghost and rejects me for being short and brown). This texts just reminded me of all times a girl say she couldn't meet up . No matter how much effort I put and how good I try to be, if Mr tall white guys asks her to come over, she will. That is really fucking depressing.