Dating apps have become a standard for hook up opportunities. If that's what you're interested in, it's actually DUMB NOT to use them. It's the difference between riding a bike across country or just driving your car...
For folks looking for long term commitments, however, one rule has not really changed pre and post advent of dating apps: the best catches rarely ever need that kind of assistance to find relationships to begin with and they get scooped up FAST without it, because their attractive characteristics are noticeable.
If someone's awesome company on dates, has an attractive magnetic personality, and looking to settle down, they generally do not need apps to reel in partners. The partners have already been coming to them.
"But but but I'M awesome, fierce and independent, Clockwork. Nobody looking for commitment is lining up to date me! "
Then maybe you're ignoring one or more 4 common problems: <ul> <li>you're looking in the wrong places (looking for commitment in places where hooking up is more catered to is like looking for romantic dinner in a landfill). </li> <li>you're not as awesome as you think and you might be overestimating what you "bring to the table" compared to what you expect from partners.</li> <li>you're not making the conditions to approach you as easy and reasonable as you believe (you might be underestimating how much effort it takes to date you without asking yourself if you're justifiably worth the trouble compared to the competition).</li> <li>you claim you're ready for a commitment; but your actions, history, and priorities are flat out saying otherwise (red flags galore).</li></ul>
Self reflection and practical maintenance can improve your odds in finding a committed partner. Telling yourself you're already perfect and people better accept that does not...
Have you been on online dating site before? Almost every woman says "not looking for sex" or something similar. Sounds like you're a real expert. And would you say you have this all figured out? ---
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