Topic List | Page List: 1 |
---|---|
Topic | Why online dating sucks |
pojr 01/16/21 8:08:52 PM #1: | okay the title is kind of clickbait-ish, i think its more of a "me" problem. this thread is sorta inspired by what @SwayM wrote. not to put you on blast bud lol.. when i use online dating i get pissed off easily when i message 30 people and get maybe 1 reply back. yes im on of those guys lol everytime i reactive my acct i start off well, i message a few people i think i might be interested in, and dont message the ones im NOT interested in...but after a week i get impatient and start messaging a shit ton of people, no matter of interest level. "oh she's cute, i'll message her". thats a bad way to do it right? could be wrong but i think the reason i get pissed is because i believe im entitled. i have a bad mindset that im entitled to get a response back, when in fact i am not. part of the reason i get pissed too is because i do put a lot of effort in, but dont get much back in return. like, i will genuinely look for something to comment on, ask a question about their job or some shit. i dont know. if i see someone went to a university, i automatically assume they wont be interested - i never went to college. i made a few exceptions and i rarely get replies from them i'm 5'8 and usually when someone says they prefer taller guys, or they are taller than I themselves, i usually dont bother messaging them. like above, i sometimes make exceptions to no avail. truth is i dont know why i made this thread. i did want to come clean, hoping for some good ole sympathy, i like sympathy. but maybe you can talk some sense into me. maybe im being a dumbass. people tell me i try to hard, and i do need to question that. i have copy/pasted messages too and that does not seem to work any better. so i dunno about that "dont try so hard" thing >_> anyway, to those who read this thank you homie. ce i love you all. anyone else have this issue? --- pojr I summon it. You spell it. ... Copied to Clipboard! |
Topic List | Page List: 1 |