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Topic	Ghosting is one of the worst things about dating.
Wetterdew 10/24/20 11:21:41 PM #7:	FairySportyOne posted... It's...cruel? How is it cruel? If anythign it's really nice - because you know you're not wasting your time with someone faking on you for free dinners or whatever reason How come you think the options are -Ghost them or -String them along pretending you're interested in them ? There's a third option and it's to tell them you aren't interested so they can get over it more quickly. Being ghosted hurts. The other person will eventually learn you don't want them, but more painfully than if you just said it outright. I get it's awkward to tell somebody you don't want them, but it's cowardly and hurtful to let them find out by ghosting them. --- rip to all the animals killed in wildfires. <cite>Wetterdew posted [p:946263610] in Ghosting i... [t:79061615]...</cite> <quote>FairySportyOne posted... </cite> <quote>It's...cruel? How is it cruel? If anythign it's really nice - because you know you're not wasting your time with someone faking on you for free dinners or whatever reason</quote>How come you think the options are -Ghost them or -String them along pretending you're interested in them ? There's a third option and it's to tell them you aren't interested so they can get over it more quickly. Being ghosted hurts. The other person will eventually learn you don't want them, but more painfully than if you just said it outright. I get it's awkward to tell somebody you don't want them, but it's cowardly and hurtful to let them find out by ghosting them. --- rip to all the animals killed in wildfires.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
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