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| _AdjI_ 08/17/20 3:30:26 PM #13: | Zeus posted... If a guy had sex with 20 girls over the course of 15 years, for instance, is very different from a girl having sex with 5 guys in the same year or concurrently having sex with guys. Why would it be? We'll discount currently sleeping with other guys because that's not what's being discussed here, but provided appropriate steps are taken to ensure the safety of all involved parties (namely STD testing), why should sexual history have any bearing on a present relationship? For that matter, you know full well this isn't a matter of comparing a guy having 20 partners over 15 years to a girl having 5 in 1 year. I've personally seen you break out the "A key that fits many locks..." analogy in this context, so I really hope you don't plan on pretending you think there isn't a sexist double standard when it comes to promiscuity. Zeus posted... How many different sexual partners one person has had has no bearing on how many partners the other has had or why it might bother them. It should, if they have some modicum of self-awareness. Being a hypocrite doesn't automatically make somebody wrong, but when the only factor involved in forming the position is "I feel this is the wrong thing to do," it does. ... Copied to Clipboard! |
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