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| Topic | are some feelings really just less valid than others? |
| LinkPizza 08/15/20 8:04:29 PM #9: | acesxhigh posted... for example, maybe a guy learned about his gf's sexual history and said "ok basically I don't respect you anymore because I you're a slut and I can't be with you". you can imagine some "modern" reactions, like "Oh my god, how horrible, are you slut shaming me, you don't get to judge me for that", etc etc.. A lot of guys are shitty, though. Theyll have sex with like 20 girls, then say a girl is a slut for having sex with 5 different guys. So, he calls her horrible even though hes had 4x the partners. But then say its fine since hes a guy. So, Id definitely say that his feelings are less valid... Same thing can happen with females, too... But as for telling people how to feel, you cant. But how much you care about someones feelings will change depending on you, the other person, the feeling, and the relationship between you. When someone dies, some people are sad. Others may feel relieved. Both feelings are probably fine. The ones who are sad may have been close. Where the relieved ones are people that were having their loves ruined or something... --- Official King of Kings Switch FC: 7216-4417-4511 Add Me because I'll probably add you. I'm probably the LinkPizza you'll see around. ... Copied to Clipboard! |
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