LogFAQs > #942628105

How to deal with loneliness?

-find purpose and value in what you can do solo (don't have anything to do? stop crying and FIND something to do besides crying)

-stop feeling ashamed about the amount of time you spend alone (plenty of people can feel like shit in groups and publicly ADMIT IT daily)

-stop letting other people define who you are with arbitrary labels and how happy you're "allowed" to be...defining yourself is YOUR job, nobody else's (if you mostly do that alone, keep doing you)

-you alone, but you're usually comfortable and satisfied in your own way? guess what: you're probably already FINE and better off than a lot of people tryin to drag you back down because you pulled off what they stink at (which is why they want you unhappy too)

-STOP STOP STOP judging your worth by how popular you want to be and how much booty you think you're supposed to slay (if you define a big part of existence by how much dates/sex you get...whoops, you fucked up, try something else cause you ain't gonna be young forever)

you feeling lonely bites you in the ass so much because YOU give it that power over you
stop bendin the knee to that dysfunction and work up from there
take back your power over it by acknowledging it's a dysfunction and you want it gone
wanting something for real means doing something about it

you ain't ever gonna find better until you start believing you as an individual can in the first place
most of the people endlessly whining about being lonely have internalized pessimism and institutionalized goals that don't take that into account
acknowledge the infection, find your own cure, and use it as proof you can do more than sit infected

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Moo.
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