LogFAQs > #941941168

Yeah I agree with all of these platitudes. There was a time when I was a young horny teen who looked for the loophole in any rule. I didn't comprehend how bad I could hurt people until I did. Again, I dont want to sound like Im excusing myself. Im trying to be honest with what happened because either

A. Lots of the people I'm talking to in this topic are in the same boat. During the metoo movement the people who were outed were always the angriest shouters of platitudes like "no means no no exceptions" (you can forgive anyone but yourself)

B. People in here got good information at a young age and avoided hurting other people and developed healthy relationships. If this is the case I want to kinda figure out what worldview kept you away from mistakes like this.

Heck when "get an enthusiastic yes" became the new slogan for consent I was definitely confused because I had never known sexual politics to even work that way. I get it nowadays because I've been in the lab experimenting, but I definitely didnt have the tools to come up with that concept on my own.

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wird