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Topic	Did any of your dreams involve events/achievements at an age younger than you r?
joe40001 03/31/20 7:06:03 AM #23:	Ultima Dragon posted... As a late bloomer myself I get where you're coming from with the "youthful innocent nervous romance." You can pretty much only get that in high school or maybe early in college. Teen year stuff, pretty much. I still have had several fulfilling experiences as an older adult though. I don't know, I can't necessarily relate to just dwelling on shit. Either you dwell on it for the rest of your life and you die, having never experienced anything that you wanted to. Or you start genuinely working on these things and taking one step at a time toward reaching them. Acceptance can be a hard pill to swallow for sure, but the alternative is basically just spending your entire life paralyzed and nothing ever changes. You'll be lamenting the exact same things 5, 10, 15, 20, etc.. years from now. I've tried really hard to break out of it. It feels like every time I let myself have some hope or excitement for the future this big painful "YOU CAN'T!" comes out from "reality". I don't know what that is, if it's a delusion, if it's true. It's pretty debilitating though, and I really don't want to indulge it. I was ready to be better 10+ years ago, I'm so sick of this hopelessness. --- "joe is attractive and quite the brilliant poster" - Seiichi Omori https://imgur.com/TheGsZ9 <cite>joe40001 posted [p:936526686] in Did any of... [t:78517805]...</cite> <quote>Ultima Dragon posted... </cite> <quote>As a late bloomer myself I get where you're coming from with the "youthful innocent nervous romance." You can pretty much only get that in high school or maybe early in college. Teen year stuff, pretty much. I still have had several fulfilling experiences as an older adult though. I don't know, I can't necessarily relate to just dwelling on shit. Either you dwell on it for the rest of your life and you die, having never experienced anything that you wanted to. Or you start genuinely working on these things and taking one step at a time toward reaching them. Acceptance can be a hard pill to swallow for sure, but the alternative is basically just spending your entire life paralyzed and nothing ever changes. You'll be lamenting the exact same things 5, 10, 15, 20, etc.. years from now.</quote> I've tried really hard to break out of it. It feels like every time I let myself have some hope or excitement for the future this big painful "YOU CAN'T!" comes out from "reality". I don't know what that is, if it's a delusion, if it's true. It's pretty debilitating though, and I really don't want to indulge it. I was ready to be better 10+ years ago, I'm so sick of this hopelessness. --- "joe is attractive and quite the brilliant poster" - Seiichi Omori https://imgur.com/TheGsZ9</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
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