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TopicWould it be a bad idea to break up with my gf of 3 years via email?
NeoShadowhen
12/31/19 9:47:26 AM
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Personally, I wouldnt tell her all the things you know. Definitely dont tell her you snooped her phone. I dont fault you for what you did, in fact I would have encouraged it. But dont let her know you did.

But Im a sneaky little shit. You gotta be you. She wants to talk, fine. But go into it knowing that youre done. Make it clear you think the thing has run its course.

Every thing that you know that other people dont know that you know is leverage. Dont try to be the caught you in a lie big winner. The only way that you win in this scenario is you getting out of the relationship. Preferably as smoothly as possible.

If they become an issue down the road, then youll still have your leverage and can act accordingly. But if you can break it off free and clear with no fallout, take that as a win.
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