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TopicGay man calls out his HS bully after he came out as bisexual sparking debate.
Funkydog
11/18/19 12:34:26 PM
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AlisLandale posted...
Why is he holding onto a decade old grudge?

Unless the bully was still being a dickwad then calling him out is maximum petty.


Being made to feel like you are less than a person because of your sexuality is hardly a grudge. What the bully did was awful and it is something he should could terms with and rectify. Accept he was a terrible person and make amends for it. He absolutely does not "get a pass" because it was some time ago or he himself was bi.

What he did was make someone suffer got something they had no control over. Bullying people over their sexuality (and just in general) leads to severe consequences. What if his victim was one of the many bullying victims who killed themselves, self harmed or remains plagued by mental health issues for the rest of their life?

If the victim "did it in the right way" is largely irrelevant. The bully shouldbe public about his past actions. Accept what he did was awful and apologise for what he did and was. Not keep it hidden away from others.
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