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TopicCouples of Ce, how many times do you have sex with your girlfriend/wife
Fony
10/15/19 12:25:43 PM
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emblem boy posted...
Fony posted...
lww99 posted...
treewojima posted...
lww99 posted...
Im 28, shes 25.
Engaged, live together, been together for almost 6 years.

We have sex once or twice a month

Used to be like 5 times a day when we first got together, not sure what happened

If you're engaged and it's dropped off like that you guys need to have a conversation


Weve had many. Pretty much the same conversation over and over.

Just doesnt seem to change


Sounds like a relationship based on checkboxes, obligstion and pleasing your peers and family. Just open it up now. The attraction is already dying. Fucking my fiancee is the first or second thing on my mind every day and we've been together for about as long as you and yours.


What's "checkbox couple " mean?


It means the man , woman or both date and marry someone based on the superficial and not so superficial impersonal attributes to guage viability as a mate.

Lets talk about women, because its obvious and well known.

Women's checkbox man is as follows:

Has the right type of career and income
Has the right type of car and home
Has the preferred height and build
Comes from the right type of family and social circle
Can gain acceptance and approval from all of her friends
Willing to marry her and make her special day a reality

As you can see, its about stability and appearances and personal attraction isn't even on the list for many women, for some it is at the bottom. There is nothing in the checklist that even hints at real love or personal attraction. In fact a majority of people marry a person who checks most or all of these to some degree even if there is NO attraction at all.

Also, the problem with approval is for couples who marry early, by the time they're my age sex really dries up. It wouldn't be an issue if not for the fact that all people want to feel desired.

The amount of married women that are trying to be my side ass is crazy, and even greater are the ones who just flirt and fish for complements. They like their situation for many other things, but they aren't attracted to the spouse as much as they should be.

The ones who are happy on the personal level do not engage in this behavior, ever.
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