Dudes get so insecure when women say shit like this. How about you try not being shitty at sex?
And women get insecure when you say they take too long and make it boring.
Its not that guys are shitty, it's that they are being expected to change for women and that women shouldn't have to comromise.
Damn, I should stop being so selfish and choosing to hold back my orgasm, despite the fact that I can orgasm multiple times per session and have literally no reason to not come as much as possible. Im so stubborn for not achieving my peak after a stubby has poked my hole two whole times. Lets be honest, for some of us women, the compromise is allowing you to fuck us at all. I have far better things to do with my day then let you seizure on top of me for 1-4 minutes. Hence why you need to make me want to let you do that. Sorry the trade off is that I take 10 minutes, or if youre willing to put in some effort I can usually go a lot faster, but it means foreplay and you turning me on to make me orgasm faster. Its not that women arent compromising, its that some of yall arent keeping up your side of the compromise.
Its his job to get her off. Hes privileged with being allowed to fuck her. Lol. ---