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TopicI need to vent about a relationship issue and cant talk to others [Blogfaqs]
foolm0r0n
08/05/19 12:07:22 PM
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It's pretty clear neither of you know what you want when you have been dating for 8 years with no commitments or future plans. Her proposal to move to Portugal was effectively a (weak indirect) marriage proposal, and you were not enthusiastic enough about it, so it basically ended there already. I think you could lock it down by actually proposing to her, since she won't do it, but I don't think either of you want that.

I just remembered that you guys met in high school so the anxiety of "what else is out there" seems pretty obvious. Even if you want to end up married at some point in the future, breaking up for a while in between would definitely help. You guys are just too scared of change AND the status quo to make a proper decision right now.
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